Frieren: Grief Beyond Sadness

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S3E7: This week, Josué and Rae are talking about Frieren: Beyond Journey’s End, a beautiful high fantasy story that begins at the adventure’s ending. They explore how Frieren (series and character) models a different way to grieve, one that centers on curiosity, reflection, gratitude, and celebration. They both share personal anecdotes about grief- Josué celebrating and recontextualizing his perception of his grandfather, and Rae rediscovering and revisiting her ancestors through family genealogy research. They then discuss the role of gratitude in grief-based practices as well as its role in living with intention fully in the moment and having no regrets in life.

Themes/Topics Discussed:

  • Death
  • Feeling alone
  • Finding Oneself/Identity Development
  • Guilt
  • Love
  • Working with others
  • Grief
  • Loss
  • Bereavement
  • Mourning
  • Disenfranchised grief
  • Closure
  • Grief-based practices
  • Gratitude

Relatable Experiences:

  • Acceptance
  • Clarity/Understanding
  • Coming of age/Getting older
  • Death
  • Loss (other than death)
  • Guilt
  • Moving
  • Seeking closure with loss
  • Living with intention/mindfully/fully in the moment to live without regrets
  • Recontextualizing past experiences

Anime/Characters Mentioned:

  • Frieren: Beyond Journey’s End
  • One Piece

Non-Anime Media Mentioned:

  • Lord of the Rings (books and movies)
  • The Hobbit (book & movies)
  • Dungeons & Dragons

Conversation Starters:
What stories about grief have been the most impactful in your life? Which stories have helped you through your own grief?

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